Talking to Children about Death


When we lose a loved one, it is often hard to comfort others - even our children.  Parents often avoid talking to their children about death because they think it will upset them.  But talking about death can help children deal with their fears.
     Children react to death in different ways than adults, and sometimes they say things that seem odd or inappropriate.  It is important to remember that your child is simply trying to understand and accept what has happened.
How to Explain Death to Children:
·Explain what happened in a way they can understand.·Encourage them to talk.  Listen and accept their feelings, no matter how difficult it may be.·Give clear, simple answers to their questions.  Also, it's okay to not have all the answers.·Help them understand that they will still be loved and looked after. ·Show affection, support, and consistency.  Let them know you will be there to help.·Share your feelings in a way they can understand and not be overwhelmed.  It's okay to let them
   know you hurt too.